Real attempts. Honest accounts.

  • Hats Off for the Butterflies: Melbourne Zoo 2026

    Gentle challenge

    A black butterfly on his arm, a dingo spotted before anyone else, and a dark wombat cave crossed by following a friend’s voice. Alan Groom, who has sight loss, spends a school holiday day at Melbourne Zoo with two young girls and finds a zoo that puts its animals first, and a reminder of why…

  • Freeze When the T. Rex Looks: Melbourne Museum 2026

    Gentle challenge

    Five hours at Melbourne Museum with two young girls, a hunting T. rex and a room of quarantined spiders. Alan Groom, who has sight loss, finds a museum that speaks in light, scale and touch, and learns what helps when the labels are out of reach.

  • I Touched a Starfish: SEA LIFE Melbourne Aquarium 2026

    Gentle challenge

    The six-year-old found the touch pool before I did. A day at SEA LIFE Melbourne Aquarium with dear friends and their two daughters, in galleries built for the dark, with a reef shark circling overhead and a glass floor above a saltwater crocodile. A city aquarium that is compact, colourful and well worth the visit.

Score the experience, not just the access.

Every reflection on this site ends with the same rubric — and you can complete it too. It measures what compliance checklists miss: how the attempt actually felt. The better the experience felt, the higher the score. The greater the challenge, the more stars it earns.

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About

Written by Alan Groom

I'm a British writer living with sight loss, and for years there was a tension I couldn't shake: wanting the loud, joyful, sensory events — motorsport, festivals, mountains — whilst being held back by anxiety and practical barriers.

Then I noticed something. Every attempt, even the messy ones, gave me back more than it cost. Pride. Learning. Stories. So now I document the attempts honestly, and I invite you to share yours.

Every accessibility detail published here is verified against the organiser's own information before publication. The reflections are mine; your experience may differ — and that's rather the point.

"When I hesitate, I look towards the skier with no usable vision at all — flying past me — and ask myself: what's holding you back?"
— Skiing in Norway

Whatever your challenge is — go anyway.

If there's one manageable challenge you feel able to embrace, it might just shift something for you. And if you do go, I'd genuinely love to hear how you found it: what challenged you, what surprised you, and what stayed with you.

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